Useful white elephant gifts people steal

Why useful gifts win

In a white elephant, people choose between a mystery box and a gift they can see someone else loves. The ones that get stolen are gifts that anyone can imagine using: a soft blanket, a good drink, a phone stand, a kitchen tool. The more broadly useful, the more often it moves.

That is not always your goal. If you want your gift to be stolen a lot, buy useful. If you want to take something home you chose, buy something you would also use.

What makes a gift steal-worthy

• Used by most people, not a niche.
• Easy to understand when unwrapped.
• Not tied to a gender, age or hobby.
• Looks good: neat packaging helps.
• Ready to use without setup.

Mistakes with useful gifts

• Too practical to feel fun. A pack of sponges is useful and dull. Pick something people want, not just need.
• Too niche. A tool for one hobby only helps one person.
• Needs batteries or an app. Wasted time during a game.
• Wrapped plainly. Big and neat wins. Small and sloppy is skipped.
• Wrapped in a way that hides the shape. A mystery makes people pick it, and a clear shape makes them skip it.

Not sure about the limit? Check the white elephant rules for how groups usually set it.

Wrapping and strategy

Timing matters as well: gifts opened late in the game tend to be the ones people already want, so useful items do best in the middle of the pack. Bring the gift you would be glad to go home with, because every gift can move.

Use a box slightly larger than the gift, and wrap it so the shape does not give it away. A sturdy box makes a modest gift look generous. See white elephant gift wrapping ideas for more. If your group is deciding steal limits, read the steal rules.

Hollyhush has a white elephant tool that handles turn order and steals, with a printable rules card at /white-elephant/card.

Set up turn order, steal limits and a TV game screen in a minute. Create your group, free

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